潮爸 ^-^

最近迷上了《爸爸去哪儿》。

真的是一部值得推荐的戏哦～

除了看到各类爸爸教育孩子的方式，还有很多感人的画面。:')

孩子们之间的互动也使我重新认识小孩的童真，给了我一种 “当爸爸会是什么感觉” 的幻想。哈哈哈～

嗯，大概以后想当个潮爸吧！

像张亮（模特儿、厨艺极佳）一样，酷酷又能干！:)

赞美

昨晚在 ktv pub 不停地唱歌。我们唱啊唱，一唱就好几个小时了。轮到我们桌的时候，我就唱了《小情歌》。还没开口就听到别桌的顾客一直不约而同地说道：“哇，小情歌嘞。”顿时只感觉到大家的目光都扫过来了。

幸好，我开始唱时，大家都一起跟着唱。哈哈哈，超搞笑的，好像老师在带动学生们唱歌！结束了之后，隔壁桌的突然向我们说：“哇，小青峰。好听好听。”哈哈，第一次因为歌声而收到陌生人的赞美。woo, 爽！即使有很多部分其实都唱不到 key，但.. who cares? :D

死亡 - 我们总是被它缠绕着..

对他唯一的印象就是谈吐“欧式”，有成人之风范。虽然他比我小四岁，但当时的我感觉像是他的弟弟。哈。那个时候我跟着爸爸同事的家人（很怪吧）一起到圣淘沙。我跟他们家的小儿子坐在车后座，尽说一些无关紧要的话。我只记得他的英语超强的。他应该才小学低年级，而我应该读中学了吧。

一场恐怖的交通事故导致他一度昏迷不醒，而刚好过马路时正在前头的哥哥毫发无伤。自中二那年，他就没办法上学，更不用说考什么'O'水准了。

听说是前几天过世的。爸爸是从别的同事口中才得知此事。他刚从殡仪馆回来，向我们说：“好像是自杀。”我顿时感到心脏好像被什么东西硬往下扯，口渐渐地流失水分，犹如干枯的沙漠。妈妈听了，说话时声音有一度还颤抖着。

我想：有时候我们真的无法判定谁对谁错，或某个决定明智与否。他心中的苦闷、烦躁、埋怨想必是我们想象不了的。他身边亲朋好友对他的爱想必也是我们无法想象的。只希望他在天堂能得到安宁；深爱着他的人们能从这个艰难的时候得到解脱。rip, mark.

如何坠入爱河

Currently reading a book 'How to Fall in Love' by Cecelia Ahern. (almost at midway mark now) I must admit, thought it was gonna be a chic-flick kinda novel, perhaps largely similar to all other love novels. But this book has the ability to keep me glued to it, even after stopping, I find it easy to connect back to the story when I pick it up and continue reading again.

Here are some excerpts which I love:

1. He was staring at me, a thoughtful look on his face. 'What?' I asked. 'Rose petal,' he said simply. 'I love rose petal.' 'And the chocolate would be in the shape of a petal.' 'You're good,' I acknowledged. 'All the more reason for me to keep you alive.' 'You mean there's more than one reason?' he joked, and closed the door. Yes, I thought to myself as I watched him make his way around the car.

2. 'Where would we be without tomorrows? What we'd have instead would be todays. And if that was the case, with you, I'd hope for the longest day for today. I'd fill with you, doing everything I've ever loved. I'd laugh, I'd talk, I'd listen and learn, I'd love, I'd love, I'd love. I'd make every day today and spend them all with you, and I'd never worry about tomorrow, when I wouldn't be with you. And when that dreaded tomorrow comes for us, please know that I didn't want to leave you, or be left behind, that every single moment spent with you were the best times in my life.'

Superb writing I must say. Using the simplest of words but yet constructing such beautiful sentences that manages to touch hearts. <3



How to...

渺小的我

To buy a facial cleanser, I had to step into an all-pink and supposedly for-females store today. Although I always feel that it's perfectly fine for a guy to enter such shops or even use female products, I was still feeling uneasy lol. Aish~ 原来我心里还是很在意别人的眼光。任凭颜色与该店的信念而扼杀了自己的选择权。me no like. :(

Oh wells, but eventually went in still and got freebies (samples, tissue paper with SHINee, membership card). haha. 鼓起了勇气，于是最后得到了所要的。hehe. :)

The "cube, ladder, horse, flower, storm" test:

Conceal emotions; Under-reliance; Love gone; Good health; Low self-esteem.
hmm.. 还挺准的！

freebies~

from $39.90 to $25 :b

Beautiful Love.

Just finished watching a movie. Sat on the floor, in front of the lappy, simply marveling at the beauty of the movie. As the moments jump at different points of the timeline, one can somehow anticipate or rather, hope their lives intertwine for the better. The ups and downs seem almost necessary for their love to blossom. Perhaps, the downs were what strengthened the love between them, maybe even signaled to them the need for each other; it laid the foundation for good things to happen. <3

Dex & Emma

荒谬 / 合理？

第一次参加一个追悼会。
更确切地说，是一个“某宗教”类型的追悼会。

他说道：“我们今天来这儿不是要哀悼、落泪，而是团聚在一起庆祝。说完几段经典名句后，我们会唱几首歌，然后才享用美食。”可能是我抱着太多的偏见，但我一直觉得这些人只是在以亲人的死亡来试图传教。与甲女士初次见面，她竟然在握手时说：“欢迎你来到我们的 x 追悼会。”我心里在想：喂，小姐。到底现在是什么情况啊？这可是我亲人的家耶，不是你的地盘！mygosh.

唔，当然我相信这宗教确实安抚了他的心，也给予他足够的力量与勇气过着“没有她”的日子。那个人所说的“庆祝”，或许只是一种激励人心的话吧，并无任何讽刺性的意思。据他所言，她只是在沉睡，已经归到某神的身旁了。他甚至望着天花板说她已经在天堂过着美好生活了。哈，有时真的无法相信这种事，但有时却又希望真的是这样。毕竟，我们都是期望好的事情发生在我们亲人的身上，不管是还活着或已往生。

没想到这么快就一周年了。时间的流逝似乎没能减少他心里的痛失感。每当提起姑婆或关于她的事，他脸上总是显露痛彻心扉的表情。

眉头深锁、双眼紧闭、嘴角下垂、呼吸急促。

我能做的也只是慰问、紧握他的手、真诚地给他一个拥抱……